Nikki wants a sleepover. I just don't want to let her

go on on now. It is fine if it is my Dad and Moms house or Auntie Uli and Uncle Ray. I just feel that my kids are all growing up. I told her that mommy won't be there then. Nikki says" But there is another mommy there." What do you say to that. She is right. I feel like I give my children a lot of freedom in so many ways;

however it is hard for me to do sleepovers. Everyone can come here though. Just a reflection on my feelings as a mommy.